Being Black can be exhausting, but a marketplace curated for us by us can help.
By now, I’ve let all of you in one some of my favorite things. We’ve discussed the ice cream thing and I disclosed my love for coffee. Now that we know we’ve gotten to know each other, I’m ready to really dive in and discuss one of my most guiltiest of pleasures…
Although I’m an ice cream girl, between the hours of 7am and 11am, coffee reigns first in my life.
Since being exhausted is no fun, I decided to share my favorite things that help me get right to bed.
Insecurity is something I’d like to say we all deal with. If you disagree, I’m calling you on your lie. Recently, I’ve been feeling increasingly insecure. It could be the new job. Since starting five months ago every now and then I feel when I take one step forward, gaining my footing, I take two steps back. Kind of like a humbling tango. Or, this decline in confidence could also be due to my upcoming wedding and the panic I endure every few weeks about the fact that someone has chosen ME to be with them for the rest of their life. I’ll lay in bed thinking “Me? Is he sure he wants to be with this forever?” or “It’s only a matter of time before my flaws start wearing at him and he’s sick of me.” I beat myself up for even thinking these self-doubts. Then, I beat myself up even more for being insecure, especially when I scroll through my Instagram timeline and see other women living their best life via swimsuit photos …
When you’ve found true love, be warned because there’s no turning back. You can fight it, but you’ll be back. You can’t mess with destiny.
Kat and Lezita are taking the phrase “Treat Yo Self” to a whole new level. The two founders of unapologeticallysingle.com are tapping into the gift box craze and encouraging self love along the way.